But, that is Me......undeniable...
I do not know how people will perceive me, and how they look at me, but what i know is i like merry!!!! =)
I am a person who like to chat with people from all walks of life, explore and learn new things, observe the things from different angles and perspectives, while the most important thing is that i like freedom.... and hope to live in a harmony environment that all people can live happily without any complaints ... Although i know this is impossible....and if like that, people will not call this as life....But paradise... Life is just like that, always full with challenges that waiting us to deal with it. If you are a person who can always take it easy, then you are not that care how people see you....
sometimes, it is good, but sometimes, it is not.....GOOD is because you are not easily distracted or influenced by the others when you are doing something tough or difficult, you need to concentrate, but the BAD is that, you lose the chance to learn from the others, and change your bad habits. As we will not know our bad habits and we can only know that through people's perception and so on. No matter how, you need to filter it into a good evaluation. Thus, it will not influences you in a bad way, but in a good way...=)
Although people might say, i don't care what you are trying to say, as i am not agree with you, or people might say, i will care the way how people see us....They always have their own opinions as well. And if you are a person who has a bad temper u will arguing with them, and always feel like you has lost your own dignity after the fight. I think this is because when in a unfortunate day or a bad day, people might say something that accidentally hurt people when they lost control. Although they might not really irritate with that person....
And as a third people, we also play an important role in "playing with mood". I say so is because when two of them have a fight, and you are the " middle people" u cannot do anything, this is because if you accidentally say something wrong, you might neither be "killed" or become a people that are irritated by the two independent parties.
But as you know, "third People" are people who set in the middle of the situation. They cannot do this, cannot do that, they just like tie up by the others, can't even move, although they might have a struggle, but they can do nothing, but just keep quite. Although it might be useful, but it doesn't solve. I trust that everyone whatever is in an infant stage, kinder garden,primary school, secondary school, university or even working place, you will still face the same problem one day, and at this time, you might feel yourself and the other parties has turned into a stalemate, that is both of you are hating or hold resentment with somebody and wanna cost the other "die".
You might think that you will feel better if you do so. But do you think that he or she is a kind-hearted or a good person, but the time which both of you meet are not a right time? What i mean is that every people must have their own personalities and identities, and nobody will never do not have a drawback even though he or she is a famous people. So, we cannot "see" others or
"request" other to have the " perfect" behaviors, personalities or values, as these things are very abstract. No one can simply named it or just defined it....
For example, the prisoners in the Shi Quan, china had helped victims in the big earthquake which had caused million people die. Actually, they( the prisoners) have the opportunities to run away from the prisons when the prisons were destroyed, but do you know that neither one of them run away from the prisons but they chose to help victims that are in the disaster, and this had proven that all human begin are kind even though he or she has done something wrong.
They should have the chance to change themselves to a better self via the acceptance of people, the encouragement of people, and the love of people. People might do something wrong, as we all are not perfect, but we are equal, i think no one will never do not done wrong in this world, although it just a small cases, but it also considers wrong right...?? Nowadays, i have observed and discovered that people can easily get angry, but they do not easily forgive a person.
I am an ordinary people, and i have limited powers to influence people that do not hate or hold resentment of the other people, why i will say like this is because i am a person who do not like "War", but Peaceful life, that is.
I am a person with simple needs, simple live but want to have a great deal of Happy....=)
This is me....a greedy me....
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